Here's a few tips that I hope will help!
Wedding Traditional Approach:
Use only your single first initials on pre-ceremony stationery
Use your new married single initial or 3 letter initials in post-ceremony stationery
Wedding Modern Approach:
Use your new 3 initial married monogram
Use your new single married last name initial
Use your first initials
What goes where?
Jill Anne Smith = J, JAS, JS -or- JSA
Eve Marie DuPont = E, EMDP -or- EDPM
Rob Michael Davis = R, RMD -or- RDM
Jill Anne Smith Davis = J, JSD -or- JDA
Rob Michael Davis = R, RMD, RDM
Jill and Rob Davis = D, JR -or- JDR
Hyphenated names get tricky ... if you have questions on those feel free to email us at firstname.lastname@example.org!
Happy Monogramming ...